Published On:Monday, March 26, 2012
Posted by devil
Friends With Benefits Dating - My Best Tips For Success!
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Not everyone has the time or energy that is required to build and maintain a serious relationship. It's hard work. And then there's the commitment thing. It's a little scary, isn't it?
Let's face it, dating can be a real drag. Trying to figure out if you like each other - those awkward moments where you can't decide what you want to say. And dating is expensive too! Who needs it?
Sounds like you need to look into what I call, "Friends with benefits dating."
What is friends with benefits dating?
In simple terms, it's a no strings attached, noncommittal, sexual relationship. It's purely physical with none of the dating stress involved. It's the best of both worlds.
OK, so how do we get started with friends with benefits dating?
I thought you'd never ask!
Let me ask you this: Do you have any friends that you are comfortable with and physically attracted to? Chances are you do. This is a good place to start.
First of all, she, and you, must be unattached. That is imperative.
Secondly, you have to make her see you sexually. The best way to accomplish this is by creating sexual tension.
And how do we do that?
You begin by dropping little sexual innuendos and jokes. Do not use vulgarity. This will not help you to accomplish your goal. Start slowly and be subtle. The idea here is to make her see you in a sexual light. In response to your "sex talk", notice her expressions. Is she amused or disgusted? This will determine whether you should continue or back off.
Creating sexual tension can take time but it's a necessary step before going on to the final step.
The last step is the most simple - you have to ask her. If you've been laying the groundwork by creating sexual tension she shouldn't be totally shocked when you propose a friends with benefits relationship.
However, she still could be offended. If this is the case. apologize and walk away. There's no sense ruining a friendship over it and there's still plenty of girls out there who will be amenable to a friends with benefits dating relationship.
Final thoughts: It is important early on that you establish a set of rules for your friends with benefits relationship. First and foremost, it must be entirely noncommittal. It must be physical and nothing else. No dinners - no movies - no dating. Your only reason for being together is sex - nothing more. Follow these rules and it could be the start of a beautiful friends with benefits relationship.
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